What is sexual energy transmutation?
Is the current way you use sexuality a benefit to your life? Or does it hinder your life in some way?
If you look at it from the perspective that “yes I am consistently having sex” and that is your way of saying it is a benefit, then you will find this article about Sexual Energy Transmutation interesting. Because most people have not even considered this idea. I know some people are waking up to the idea, and realizing that their is more to sex, than what they are currently experiencing. But even if they hear about it, most people are to lazy to even consider completely changing their lifestyle for it. This applies to both men and women, but from research I have learned that “releasing” often for men, has a much more dramatic effect than for women. But from my experience a few tweaks in your current sex life, could change your life dramatically for the better.
Most people are not aware that their sexual energy truly runs their life.
There are sex addicts, pedophiles, fetishes, etc. All brought about on people because they don’t know how to handle their sexual energy. I think a lot of this has amplified because of how accessible sex is on the internet. Porn addiction is another huge topic that plays into this misuse of sexuality. And the thing with all of these problems, is they are technically just another hardcore drug. If you take a look at someones brain who has sexual addiction, there brain will look similar to someone who is a drug addict. In fact, if you were to study most serial killers, you would find a common theme. Most of them are addicted to sex, in a negative way. A lot of them start off watching porn and then when that isn’t satisfying, they go a little bit farther. It never ends good as the addiction can never be satisfied. Ted Bundy had an interview before he was executed, in which he claimed that porn was the reason for him becoming a serial killer. He also made the claim that most people in prison had fallen to there depths because of some kind of sexual addiction. That is because, sexual energy is the strongest energy we possess.
Of course men and women are different when it comes to how much it affects them. For men, it has a more potent affect. Semen in men is the most precious substance in the mans body. When he ejaculates it is said that it takes a good amount of blood and nutrients in his body to reproduce that semen. That is why it is called a small death every time a man ejaculates. For a woman, the loss of fluid does not have quite the same affect, but it can if it is lost at a higher rate than normal. This is why masturbating constantly for men has such a negative affect.
I used to masturbate pretty often. At one point I even did it every day….maybe even a couple of times. This was when I was in my early 20’s and I didn’t know any better. At the time, I didn’t think it had that noticeable of an affect on my life. Looking back though, I came to realize sex ruled my life. I did alright in school, but I didn’t have that much motivation to study. I would workout some, but I would miss days regularly. If I lifted weights it was to try and get bigger, to attract women. If I rearranged my room, it was to make it look good so that if I had a chance to bring a girl back, she would like it. Granted, I was in college and this is what the majority guys at that age care about. But the point is, everything I did was to get laid. If what I was doing in the present didn’t increase my chances of getting laid later, then I thought it was worthless. This is what unhealthy sex habits can do to your life. The good thing is, these experiences set the stage for what I would learn later on.
I am 28 years old now, and a few years ago I decided I wanted to stop masturbating after coming across no fap/esoteric texts talking about the energetic benefits (Some of the reddit community uses the term “nofap” when referring to refraining from masturbating). I knew that something was off with myself. And for some reason when I read about this idea, it clicked with me. In the back of my mind I always knew that sex wasn’t something to be abused, and that ultimately it should be used to transform yourself. It really is a tool if you use it right. Unfortunately, most people abuse it, without even knowing they are abusing it.
Tread carefully….it might shock you how extreme this seems.
What happens at first when you stop releasing?
When you first decide that you are going to quit masturbating it is extremely hard! Almost seems impossible at the time. The first week was almost unbearable. Your brain is habitually wired to get ready for another dopamine rush every single day. When you don’t give it that rush it starts to change, for the better. But it has to rewire your whole nervous system. It is an exhausting change, at first. My first week I remember how horny I was almost all the time, to the point where I almost gave in. But no, I kept on going. It causes frustration. What are you going to do with all this extra energy? You will have to have a workout plan at first to exhaust yourself. If you don’t have a workout plan or something to throw all of this energy into, you will fail. Because that energy that your body is so used to ejaculating out, will build up a lot quicker and since it is not used to it, it will manifest in different ways. Especially for the job I had when I started, where I would just sit on the computer all day. By the time I left and was driving home in a traffic jam, the frustration was crazy. I was a ticking time bomb. I think the first time that I tried to quit masturbating, I went for 3 weeks and then I had to get it out. This is with no sex either. Then the second time I decided to go for a longer period. Went a few weeks longer. By the third time I went for 90 days. It is freakishly amazing the changes that you will see.
I’ll have to say that explaining this is like explaining what the taste of sugar is like. You have to try it before you know. I can tell you all of the benefits, but until you try it, you will never know. I truly believe that this is one of the secrets to advancing yourself along whatever path you are on in hyper speed. Sex is awesome, don’t get me wrong, but it can also become a distraction. I think our society has placed to great of emphasis on “getting off”. There really isn’t any love being shared between two people during the act, and then the release of energy at the end is just a waste.
Here are the benefits that I noticed from sexual energy transmutation
If you are to try and meditate the day after you ejaculate and after 30 days of not ejaculating, you will know what I mean. Your focus is ridiculous. What it does when you don’t ejaculate is, the heat builds and fills you up. I’m not an expert on chakras, but I know that it activates the higher chakras, which stabilize your mind to a higher level. I’m not going to lie, sometimes when you begin this and you get into it a little ways, you feel like everyone else is a zombie. Their mind can’t keep up with you. You can really accomplish anything. Where your former self might struggle to make it through zombie activities that require no actual intelligence and can be done by robots, your new self won’t have time for this. What I mean is, you are giving yourself a greater reserve of energy that you can use to increase your creativity and accomplish anything you want!
2) You can tell when people are bullshitting easier
This ties in with the last point. With better focus, you are more tuned into the moment. When you are around other people you can tell when they are telling the truth and when they are not. You can see what type of person they are right away. I meditated every day so I know that had an affect on it as well, but I know that I was at a different level when I didn’t masturbate. The vibe that they are giving off tells the story much better than what they are saying, and you pick up on it much easier. When you are at a higher energetic level, it’s like looking deeply into them without them saying anything. It will freak some people out too. I noticed that SOME of the people I communicated with after I started this, were almost turned off by the extra energy I accumulated. It can be intimidating to some, because subconsciously they can feel the energy you radiate is what they should be moving towards.
3) People are way more attracted to you
Don’t use this in an egotistical way. You are emitting a higher energy. Your body is just so much more energetic, and people are attracted to higher energy. People that can handle it that is. Women are way more attracted to you. At the beginning of this process I will admit that was one of the reasons I began. It’s the energy. They want it subconsciously. It is natural for women to want the yang energy because they aren’t able to accumulate it by themselves. When you start this process, you build fire and so they are attracted to you. Attraction is based on the energy the man and woman are giving off. But as the process goes on, and you learn to use your energy to accomplish anything you want, this becomes less of the motive behind it. It can be used so you can be way more energetic towards life in general.
I started to remember my dreams more frequently. They were way more real than they were before. Supposedly, this has to do with the energy making it’s way up the chakra system and filling the chakra that is associated with dreams.
5) Less Sleep
I was energetic on 5 to 6 hours of sleep. No foggy concentration in the morning and no body aches. When I get up in the morning I am ready to go.
I felt very blissful throughout the whole time. It’s hard to explain what I mean by bliss. Another thing that has to be experienced to get an idea of what I am talking about. But it’s like after a certain period of time you surpass the lower level and hit another level of awareness. You feel whole. Your brain is rewiring itself to have the dopamine released more consistently then all at once, like what happens when you orgasm all the time.
7) Things work out better for you
I noticed that everything started to work out in ways that before had seemed so tough. Everything flowed much better than before.
8) Start feeling your emotions
This is the hardest part of the whole process. But also the most beneficial. Ejaculating consistently is like a numming of your emotions. But when you stop doing that consistently, you start to feel these emotions you have been suppressing, intensely. It’s amazing. You feel alive. But you could also be feeling that depressed feeling from time to time. You feel everything intensely. But since it is right in your face, you gain some amazing experiences. You really start maturing emotionally. Isn’t that what you want, to feel everything intensely? Then you know you are alive!
My body felt better and I could workout longer. The heat that you generate from this practice too, keeps your body fat down.
10) Live in the moment
This practice will bring you into the present without having to put any effort into it. Who wants to live in the past and future all of the time? Your mind will become stable. No more monkey mind. I think it is such a gradual process of building up energy that you won’t notice it for a little while. Then one day you will be sitting around, and realize how peaceful and in the moment you are. Just another one of the benefits that is very hard to describe. But if you have had a really deep meditation before, it’s basically like that. But imagine being in this state consistently.
11) Loss of interest
A good loss of interest. I guess it depends. Are you into getting wasted and doing drugs? Going out to the bars all the time? Are you interested in trying to gain approval from other people? What are your motives behind the things you do in your life? All of these things you are going to evaluate, and depending on how they are before you start this process, they will most likely change totally. I know that I lost the urge to drink any alcohol. Possibly a beer from time to time, but that’s about it. I stopped caring about other people approving of what I was doing. I literally could care less about other people’s opinions. Most people have some kind of unconscious actions that they take repeatedly in their lives. Well when you are aware, you will realize how futile it is, and stop doing it.
Like I said, this is the type of article that I can list the benefits and you can note them in your mind. But without experiencing them for yourself, you won’t understand what I mean. You are definitely at a higher vibration and your thoughts and emotions are right in your face if you try this practice out.
1) Less Sleep
As much as it is nice to be able to get less sleep and still be energetic, it was annoying some nights when I couldn’t fall asleep. Of course that was my own problem, because I didn’t do enough with the extra energy I had accumulated throughout the day.
2) Hard to relate
Most likely unless you come on the internet to talk about your experiences, other people will have no clue what you are talking about. Most people are trying to release as much as possible. And if you bring it up, they will think you are weird. When really, they are. It’s great that you can access the internet and relate with people about their experiences. Here is a link for men to the Reddit No Fap, where you can hear about other people’s experiences.
Don’t let this process make you start thinking that sex is a negative thing in your life. You might start being prone to this, and it will not allow you to connect with potential women. Just think of this as an upgrade in how you are going to live your life. Sex is an awesome thing, in moderation. I know it affected me at first, because I would feel guilty after ejaculation. Now I don’t. I learned that it is natural to ejaculate from time to time. Just do it less frequently and you can generally keep the same energetic vibration consistently.
This path is not for everyone. Particularly the weak willed. It is TOUGH. I feel like a brand new person since I started applying this to my life. I feel like my personality has changed for the better. My physical body is stronger. I don’t get sick, ever. Women are more attracted to me than before. I want to be creative all the time. I want what is best for other people. I would like to help other people with their lives more. I want to connect with women on a deeper level than just sex. I am confident. People turn to me for advice. I am energetic. My skin looks amazing. I feel healthier emotionally. I feel cleaner. I can take on any challenges head on. And this is all from just quitting something and using that sexual energy transmutation positively. Anyone can do it, and they too will experience some great benefits.